BEND, Ore. – There are so many people, organizations and businesses coming forward to help the Bend community in the wake of Thursday’s tragic shooting at Silver Rail Elementary that they can be hard to track - which is a wonderful, even beautiful thing in such a time of pain and loss.

Much of that focus, of course, is on helping the victims and their families, including a Meal Train set up for the family of the youngest victim, 5-year-old Rhoam Summer.

In just a day, the fundraising effort had topped $155,000 given by nearly 2,800 donors, well beyond the initial $100,000 fundraising goal.

A separate GoFundMe page for the family had topped its $100,000 goal Friday night.

According to data from the Associated Press tracking U.S. school shootings dating back to 1966, Summer is the youngest victim ever killed in a mass school shooting. 

There is also a GoFundMe page for Kaylub Gianmanco, the Silver Rail father of two girls who chased after and fatally shot the young shooter. By Friday night, the page had raised nearly $200,000 of its $350,000 goal from 4,000 donors.

And there is a GoFundMe page for Saylor Graham, the 7-year-old girl seriously wounded in the attack. By Saturday morning, there had been 6,600 donations totaling almost $342,000, a long way toward the $450,000 goal.

Here’s a sampling of what was announced Friday by state and local agencies and others:

Deschutes County:

Additional community support events offered this weekend

Deschutes County Health Services, St. Charles Health System, and Bend-La Pine Schools will continue offering free, walk-in community support this weekend for families, students, first responders, and educators following the tragedy at Silver Rail Elementary.

The Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) drop-in sessions will provide crisis stabilization, emotional support, and a safe space for community healing.

Weekend Event Details:

Location: Larkspur Community Center, 1600 SE Reed Market Rd,, Bend Saturday, Oct. 17, from 1 to 6p.m.

Sunday, Oct. 18, from 1 to 4 p.m.

Cost: Free and open to all community members. No registration required.

Trained crisis response professionals and peers will be available to help individuals process stress responses, offer guidance on supporting children through trauma, and connect families to regional care resources.

Immediate 24/7 Crisis Resources:

The Deschutes County Stabilization Center is open 24 hours a day for immediate, walk-in mental health support at 63311 NE Jamison St. in Bend. Individuals can also call the local crisis line at 541-322-7500 ext. 9 or call/text the national hotline at 988.

Oregon Community Foundation:

Standing with Bend in a Time of Need

https://oregoncf.org/bend

All of us at Oregon Community Foundation are heartbroken by the tragedy at Silver Rail Elementary School, especially our team members and community partners in Bend. Our thoughts are with the students, families, educators and first responders affected by this violence.

Our priority now is to listen thoughtfully to our community partners in Bend about how to respond to the most urgent needs. Our team in Bend is part of this community and is in close touch with friends and colleagues about what comes next and how Oregon Community Foundation can be most helpful.

Meanwhile, we are coordinating with other Oregon funders to align our support efforts and will make resources available through Oregon Community Foundation's Rapid Response Fund to help address short-term community needs as they emerge.

We will continue listening, assessing community needs and working with our partners to ensure support reaches where it can do the most good.

Bend Fire & Rescue cancels Saturday open house

Bend Fire & Rescue has canceled its annual Open House scheduled for Saturday, Oct. 17, at the North Fire Station following yesterday’s tragic shooting at Silver Rail Elementary School.

This was intended to be a day for families to come together, learn and connect with our firefighters and partner agencies. In light of the tremendous loss our community is experiencing, we do not believe it is appropriate to move forward with the event.

Our focus remains with the students, families, educators and community members affected by this tragedy. We are grateful for the community’s understanding as we navigate these difficult days together.

Information about future Bend Fire & Rescue community events will be shared at a later date. For updates, further information and resources on the Silver Rail Elementary incident, please visit https://bendoregon.gov/community-support-resources/

High Desert Museum:

Our hearts are broken by the devastating news of the shooting at Silver Rail Elementary. The High Desert Museum stands with our community and supports the students, families, educators, and first responders at Silver Rail Elementary, and with all of Bend.

On Saturday, October 17, and Sunday, October 18, the High Desert Museum is offering free admission to the community. If you need a quiet place to walk, breathe, and be together, our doors are open. Please take care of yourselves and one another.

Oregon Parks & Recreation Department:

OPRD waives Central Oregon day-use parking fees this weekend

In support of the Silver Rail Elementary families and all of our Central Oregon community, Oregon State Parks is waiving parking fees in the area.

This includes the following day use parks that typically charge fees for parking: LaPine State Park, Tumalo State Park, Prineville Reservoir State Park, Smith Rock State Park, Cline Falls State Scenic Viewpoint, and The Cove Palisades State Park.

Through compassion, empathy, and kindness - we uphold our parks as places of healing and support.

Bend Park and Recreation District cancels registration programs through the weekend

Bend, Ore. – (Oct. 16, 2026) – Bend Park and Recreation District is canceling all recreation registration programs through the weekend, including youth soccer, flag football and swim lessons. Drop-in use will continue at Juniper Swim & Fitness Center and Larkspur Community Center. Cancellations are being communicated directly to patrons and posted on BPRD’s Delays and Cancellations webpage.

“The community is processing the tragedy that occurred, and we want to respect the needs of community members and our staff,” said Michelle Healy, executive director.

The system of parks, trails and drop-in use at recreation facilities are always available for community use.

“Time in nature and with others can be incredibly helpful in difficult times, and we hope these shared spaces provide comfort,” Healy added.

Oregon Office of Emergency Management:

State agencies share community support and healing resources following Bend tragedy

SALEM, Ore. — As the Bend community grieves following the tragic events at Silver Rail Elementary School, state and local partners are sharing resources to support students, families, educators, first responders and community members in the days ahead.

Oregon stands with the Bend community during this incredibly difficult time. As families process the tragedy, officials encourage people to seek support, spend time with loved ones and take advantage of community resources designed to provide connection, comfort and space to grieve.

Community Support and Healing Gathering

Deschutes County Health Services, St. Charles Health System and Bend-La Pine Schools partnered to host a free, walk-in Community Support & Healing Gathering from 4-7 p.m. Friday at Larkspur Community Center.

The gathering provided support, connection and crisis stabilization resources for students, families, school staff and community members.

Immediate Crisis and Family Support

Community members who need additional or immediate support can access the following resources:

• Deschutes County Stabilization Center: Open 24/7 at 63311 NE Jamison Street in Bend.

• Deschutes County Crisis Line: Call 541-322-7500, ext. 9 for immediate support.

• Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administrations’ Disaster Distress Helpline provides confidential crisis counseling and support 24/7 Call or text: 1-800-985-5990. Spanish-language support is available by pressing 2.

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for free, confidential support 24 hours a day. Spanish-language support is available.

• The National Mass Violence Center created a Bend-specific resource guide with information and resources to help individuals and families following the tragedy.

Resources to Help Children

This tragic event has evoked a range of emotions and safety concerns across the United States. In response to such events, the National Child Traumatic Stress Network has developed resources to help children, families and communities navigate what they are seeing and hearing, acknowledge their feelings, and find ways to cope together.

These resources include:

• Parent Guidelines for Helping Youth After the Recent Shooting (En Español)

• Talking to Children about the Shooting

• Helping Youth After Community Trauma: Tips for Educators (En Español)

• Talking to Children: When Scary Things Happen (En Espanol)

• Creating Supportive Environments: When Scary Things Happen (En Español)

• For Teens: Coping After Mass Violence

• Helping School-Age Children with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers (En Español)

• Helping Young Children with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers (En Español)

• Helping Teens with Traumatic Grief: Tips for Caregivers (En Español)

• Guiding Adults in Talking to Children about Death and Attending Services

• After a Crisis: Helping Young Children Heal (En Español)

• Age-Related Reactions to a Traumatic Event (En Español; ASL)

• Once I Was Very Very Scared (En Español) – children’s book for young children

• I Don’t Know How to Address Worries About My Child’s Safety at School (webinar)

• The Power of Parenting: Helping Your Child After a Family Homicide Loss

Oregon State Parks Waives Central Oregon Parking Fees

The Oregon Parks and Recreation Department is waiving parking fees at Central Oregon state parks beginning today and continuing through the weekend. This includes the following day use parks that typically charge fees for parking: LaPine State Park, Tumalo State Park, Prineville Reservoir State Park, Smith Rock State Park, Cline Falls State Scenic Viewpoint, and The Cove Palisades State Park.

The effort is intended to give community members additional opportunities to spend time outdoors, connect with family and friends, and find moments of calm during a difficult time.

Community organizations and local attractions are also working to provide supportive activities for families, including arts and crafts and other opportunities for families to spend time together. Some local attractions have announced free or waived admission for community members.

People respond to traumatic events in different ways. For some, spending quiet time outdoors or participating in familiar activities with family and friends can provide comfort. Others may benefit from talking with trained crisis professionals. Community members are encouraged to choose the support that feels appropriate for them and their families.

Help Support the Community

As Bend continues to grieve, community members can help by checking in with loved ones, supporting children with age-appropriate conversations, respecting the privacy of affected families and avoiding the spread of unverified information.

For the latest and most accurate official information about the incident and investigation, follow the Bend Police Department on social media, or check their press release page.

In addition, GoFundMe’s Trust & Safety team states they are closely monitoring the platform and reviewing fundraisers related to this incident. A central hub of verified fundraisers has been launched for the Bend community and several fundraisers connected to this tragedy are currently under review. GoFundMe states that all funds related to this event will remain on hold until the verification process is complete.